Many people are faced with feeling overwhelmed by the situation they are currently in. They see clutter piled on clutter, unopened boxes (often from long ago moves), and clutter re-appearing shortly after they finish their tasks. It will help to look at decluttering and getting organised as an ongoing process rather than a to-do list item that you can check off. It can be harder with young children at home (but not impossible) or with a house full of people who may not share your vision for your home. I know there is nothing more frustrating than decluttering only to have other people bring in more “stuff” and dump it in your spaces!

Organising is an evolution not a revolution
As much as we would love to tackle “getting organised” as a to-do list item and finally be done with it, getting organised is really an ongoing process. Attempting to dump all the junk in one go can leave you with burnout and a half completed project. Start with one room or one drawer and go at your own pace decluttering first. Even if you cannot get others to commit to it you may want to help yourself and commit to not bringing anything non-essential into the home while you declutter.
Maintenance is critical to avoid returning to your starting point
It is not about sorting it all out today and then you are done because your house is now “organised”. Even when you reach the point where everything has a home and you have decluttered your existing excess stuff it requires regular maintenance. Most of us are not strict about letting anything enter our home that we don’t love or use, so will need ongoing maintenance. If you have children or a partner odds are “stuff” will make it into your home almost daily.
Commit to top-up decluttering daily, weekly or monthly and build it into your routine the same way you might clean the bathroom on a certain day or certain number of times a week. With a family it might take having some set rules on how much stuff can be taken out at once, where things can go in the home, who is responsible for returning items to their homes or how often people tidy up.
A 15-20 minute family pick up each evening can be all it takes if everyone pulls together. This is my biggest hurdle in my own home as time flies and before we know it we need to get the kids ready for bed. It becomes very easy to just leave it. For me, I have different breaking points for different spaces and tend to be okay with toys staying out in the playroom for days if needed, but push myself harder to tidy up the living room. My home is rarely in a state of 100% tidiness, but I am okay with that – everyone has a different standard or expectation. I know I can have my home tip top in 15 minutes though if need be since I know in an instant where things need to get back to!
Adapt, Change, Survive and Thrive
How your home will be organised evolves as you change. As you let go of stuff and as new things enter your home it alters your spaces – rethink where things will live and how they are used.
As you learn new tips and tricks and strategies, and as you are inspired by what you see and learn elsewhere apply this knowledge to your home and life. Take action! If something is not working for you don’t continue to force the issue just because that is how everyone else organises their home. Think about what could work for you, see an idea and be inspired to apply it your own way. As I said when discussing pantry organisation – you may not have a traditional pantry, but even having spaces clearly defined for food and appliance storage allows you to apply what you learn from other people’s pantries. All that matters is something works for you.
If you set up a filing and paperwork system, but continue to have papers laying around or in stacks you might want to rethink your system. Make it easy enough that you will maintain it. If you continue to struggle to find certain items regularly rethink their “home” and make it a place that is logical for you. One person may put their keys on a table near their front door, but another might prefer to have a space in their bedroom with their keys, wallet or handbag along with other day to day essentials like phone and diary.
What are your biggest hurdles or tips for success with maintaining your home?
Find your simple,
Deb
Image: Repurposed baker’s rack just one of many ideas for upcycling and organising with non traditional items you can find on my pinterest board. Try to think outside the box!







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I have some nice wicker boxes, one for upstairs and one for downstairs and put things in them that need taking to the oppposite place, then every couple of days I empty them into the correct places.
When my elsdest is tidying her room I give her a box and tell her to put anything in the box that she doesn’t know where it should go, then I put those things away with her, that way I find she doesn’t just find her own home for them which is usually on an already over crowded window sill!
If I’m having a major tidy up I put things on our bed in piles for each person/room. That way I know I will complete the task otherwise I can’t go to bed and it really helps to sort everything out into sections first. Eg, I can then put all the hair bobbles away in one go instead of going to the bobble box 5 different times in one day, same for the kids clothes!
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February 16, 2012 at 2:41 pm
Great tip with the box you use with your daughter !!
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I can’t stand clutter and “stuff”. Unfortunately my husband inherited the hoarding gene from his mother. So we try to compromise, but gosh there’s so much I’d like to just chuck. After I saw your pantry organisation post I got motivated and went through my closet and drawers and got rid of 2 bags of clothing. I still remember this from years ago http://www.oprah.com/home/Peter-Walshs-10-Tips-to-De-Clutter-Your-Home Peter Walsh on Oprah. I love this guy and was obsessed with the show he had in the US. I couldn’t believe the “stuff” people had and the reasons they held on to it! One thing he said on Oprah stuck with me. In your closet, turn all the hangers the opposite way. When you wear something, turn the hanger back around. Whatever is still left hanging the opposite direction in 6 months time, get rid of. Here’s his website. He’s awesome! http://www.peterwalshdesign.com/

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February 16, 2012 at 2:42 pm
Love Peter Walsh too – he was the one years ago to get me connecting with the “stuff” and that it is not just stuff. use it, display it, let it go etc
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February 16, 2012 at 10:58 am
Excellent tips, Deb! Thanks for posting! xx
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February 16, 2012 at 2:42 pm
Thanks Jess!
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February 16, 2012 at 1:46 pm
This is one of the reasons I am so excited to move into our new house from April. We will live there forever unless we ever move to Australia {It is not a buying/selling market here and the land is family land. My kids will be the 5th generation to live on it}
I will be finding places for stuff that has not necessarily had a home in our current place due to lack of space. I will be ruthless and chucking stuff out as my hub bought 3 boxes of stuff in from his parents old house 6 months ago and he still has not gone through them {I will be doing it for him. He will get once more chance before end of March but if not then I will decide what stays and goes! He knows this}
I hate clutter but we have a lot of it. I am pretty ruthless and have already started going through baby stuff to chuck/give away. It is hard for me to go through things with the {little} boys around though but it will get done.
Lots more to do closer to the move. I will be in Brisbane in March for 3 weeks and then when I get back we move about a week later so I do have to get a lot of stuff done before then. DH will take the week off {hopefully} from when I get back until when we move so that I can get everything else in order. Unpacking I have found is easier to do than packing, at least with kids around.
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February 16, 2012 at 2:42 pm
Good luck as you get ready Lulu – i know it will be fab!
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Something I’ve read several times now on your blog Deb, which has stuck with me, is organise your house in a way that works for your family. It has made me look at how I organise our house in a different way. I’ve always organised (tried and failed that should be!) our house as I’ve thought it SHOULD be rather than how our family actually uses it. Coming to the realisation that it’s easier to passively persuade behaviour rather than completely change it is making life much easier! Instead of saying an area is a “no dumping zone” and continually finding stuff dumped there, I’ve transformed it into an organised dumping zone which looks much tidier and functions much better.
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February 16, 2012 at 2:43 pm
Perfect! there is a reason people dump it there – like the idea of a path created based on where the natural foot markings are – where you keep putting your keys down is where you should put a dish or a hook etc Good on you!
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Great post Deb – the 15 min tidy up has now become part of our evening routine, since you first suggested it in the blog. Having the cushions straightened, kitchen worktops free of junk, dishwasher empty and school stuff ready, makes a huge difference – thank you!
I love this, “My home is rarely in a state of 100% tidiness, but I am okay with that”. Yeah me too, I am okay with that, and everyone else is just going to have to be as well!
I have also let go about bed making, following your lead again… I routinely make beds, but on the days I work outside the home, I have decided to leave them. I just close the doors and don’t look in the bedroom again till bedtime.
And it’s bloody liberating!
x
Great tips! for me decluttering is one of a good way to get rid of my stress…I really enjoy organizing my stuffs. Thanks for sharing your ideas.
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