Grateful: the basics

by Debra Dane on February 22, 2013

in Gratitude

Here I am again exactly where I was last week, not wanting to write, but forcing myself as I cling to the routine of it, the benefits I hope and trust will be there. Sinking, but grabbing onto a flotation device.

This week I am grateful for:
The dog lying at my feet, with her here I am never alone
My 8 year old stepping in to make my planned lasagne, not my finest hour, but I thanked her for her help
The aches and pains after my first gym stick class since November, walking like a cowgirl and flinching every time someone human or furry pushed down on my quads.
The banana bread I made today that felt like my only accomplishment, gobbled up by my girls and a friend after school for their play date (I then proceeded to fall asleep).
The day off with my girls.
My husband flying home tonight.
The walks I took with the dog, breathing fresh air, often accompanied by light rain, I tried to inhale the walk hoping it would revive my spirit.
The chat with a friend in the grocery store, blocking the lane in front of the deli counter, glad I did not just wave hello and keep going. No one ever died because they cried to a friend in Coles.
The tiny burst of energy and intention that is making me write this.

What are you grateful for this week?

Find your simple,
Deb

 

Edited to add: Again I am grateful for writing this and simply continuing the practice (I was motivated by not wanting to miss a week). My husband arrived home from Sydney and actually asked me what I needed him to do to help with the house – immediately I asked for him to take care of the kitchen still full of mess from banana bread baking and dinner making. This morning both my girls slept in and I was blessed with being able to wake them with gentle kisses, slowly stirring them, but then allowing them to stay asleep when that was what they needed. Gratitude is more than an act of acknowledging what we have. I truly believe gratitude opens our eyes and heart to receive even more.

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Debbie @ Aspiring Mum February 22, 2013 at 8:17 am

Even in the hard times, the lows, the valleys, there is always something to be grateful for. I’m glad you were able to find those grateful moments this week. Big hugs to you. Happy birthday for tomorrow as well.xx
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:02 pm

Thanks Debbie – and really that is the ultimate lesson isn’t it – there is ALWAYS something (and usually many somethings) – it is just up to us to decide what we will focus on. xx
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kirri February 22, 2013 at 8:32 am

Whatever you need right now, give yourself permission to do just that.

Happy BDay for tomorrow Deb and good on you for continuing to walk the walk, even when you don’t really feel like it.

Sometimes when we are overwhelmed and feel on the urge of a breakdown, it’s actually a break-through. That’s what I’m claiming for you and your family and whomever else needs it xx
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:03 pm

thanks hon! not sure if a breakthrough is coming but i certainly need to reboot and regroup so i can get my head back on straight xx
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Julie February 22, 2013 at 10:49 am

Sounds like a tough week Deb, I hope you have a better week next week, and spend a lovely birthday with your family doing something that’s just for “you”, even if that’s just lazying in bed all day!

I had a 25th school reunion last weekend, and really grateful for attending it. I was a bit nervous of seeing old faces, but in the end I enjoyed the night. xx
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:04 pm

that is great that you had a wonderful time xx

i am actually going out for my birthday with friends – so nice to have the husbands coming too – we usually only see them at home, BBQs etc not dressed nice and having fun away from the kids
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Emily February 22, 2013 at 12:47 pm

It’s so beautiful that you still take the time to find the things to be grateful for. I hope writing this made them stand out. x
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:05 pm

it really did Em xx
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Me February 22, 2013 at 1:51 pm

Oh Deb – I wish there was something that I could do to help you. I know exactly where you are coming from and I know how hard it is. Give yourself a huge big pat on the back for writing this post even though you didn’t want to – I have learned lately that it is the things that I least want to do that I need to do the most.
Happy Birthday for tomorrow – I hope you have a wonderful day !
Thinking of you and sending heaps of love, hugs and positive energy !
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:05 pm

thanks hon – and seriously your unexpected card lifted me up so big xx
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Maxabella February 22, 2013 at 1:55 pm

It does it does it does!!! x
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:05 pm
Lisa@RandomActsOfZen February 22, 2013 at 2:13 pm

Deb, the fact that you pushed through and wrote this makes it even more special. I’m glad you stopped to talk to your friend, we all need to unload sometimes.
Have a gorgeous birthday xx
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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:06 pm

thanks Lisa – i have been unloading and crying a lot this week. i think hormones are fueling my reactions this week so hoping next week i feel a bit better finally
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Nat - Muddy Farmwife February 22, 2013 at 8:53 pm

Love that you are still writing gratefuls despite the challenges each week and especially love your addition at the bottom. Happy Weekend.

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Debra Dane February 22, 2013 at 9:07 pm

thanks Nat! I had to laugh at it a little as it really did have the effect i hoped it would. it is impossible to stay in a pit when you focus on gratitude. need to maybe switch to daily gratefuls for a while ; )
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Mandy February 23, 2013 at 7:32 am

Keep holding on Deb.
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Elisa {With Grace & Eve} February 23, 2013 at 8:01 am

Oh Deb, those last few lines in your edit are just beautiful. I agree. That walk sounded so peaceful too. I hope this weekend is nourishing for you xx
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