Today’s post is by one of my favourite Aussie bloggers – Bron from Maxabella Loves. Go check out her blog – she writes from the heart with great insights – she is someone who I think just “gets it”. I am currently away camping with the kids but leave some comment love and I will reply as soon as possible.
Clutter and I are not friends. We are barely on speaking terms. Don’t worry, I am in no way shape or form one of those cold, impersonal ‘minimalist’ types*. My home is quote-unquote capital letters ‘Lived-In’. I love pretty ‘just because I like it’ things and my addiction to books and magazines is threatening to take over the known world; but I go psycho every now and then and abolish everything (except the books and magazines) because clutter is not my friend.
Forget the annoyance of having more stuff to clean, clutter messes up your mind.
I need to have many, many completely clear horizontal surfaces in my life or I cannot function as a working mother of three. I need space to fold clothes without having to move a mountain of clothes to find space to fold. I need space to write school notes without having to move a tree worth of school notes to write. I need areas to lay out our life for the week ahead without having to rethink the week that was. And when my life feels utterly chaotic and my brain is about to explode with all the stuff that is in it, I like to saunter over and open my Empty Drawer and just breathe in the emptiness. What? You don’t have an Empty Drawer at your place? You need to get one. That Empty Draw is a pause in my life that says, yes, you are in control and yes, you do have enough storage no matter what you might think – just look at this entirely Empty Drawer. Plus, of course, every day I secretly fill that Empty Drawer with my dreams. Or not, but I could if I wanted to, right?
Now, Empty Drawers aside, in order to stay on top of clutter, you have to be vigilant and purposeful. Here are five things I do at my place that just might work at yours:
1.Have a tray.
Yes, a bit corporately, but the tray at my place is on the end of the kitchen bench and it’s where I dump all the Incoming Stuff that I don’t want to have to deal with right now. Incoming Stuff has the capability of taking over my entire kitchen in seconds if I don’t contain it. It all goes in the tray and then at the end of (most) days (okay, every now and then) it gets dealt with.
2.Have 4 clipboards hanging on your wall
Right near the tray, on the wall behind the kitchen door, I have four clipboards. They are nice, vintage clipboards but any old clipboard or even just a clip could do the job. The clipboards are labelled:
- To Pay
- To Action
- To File
- To Keep
The To Pay stuff is my husbie’s clipboard. He’s the bill payer so I just clip anything payable onto that board and he comes along and takes them and pays them.
The To Action stuff is stuff that I need to do something with that doesn’t involve money. Make a dentist appointment, fill out an application, RSVP a birthday.
The To File clipboard isn’t used as much as you’d think. Most paperwork I try to do online. But tax receipts, warranties, particularly great kids’ artwork that I pluck from the avalanche of kids’ artwork and the like get put here to go into the big filing cabinet from time to time.
To Keep is mostly things I think I really want to read but haven’t got time for right now. I go through it every other week and mostly throw those life-changing articles straight in the bin.
3.More on kids’ artwork
If you want to stay on top of Mount Artwork have to be ruthless every.single.day. And better than that, at the end of each year you need to go back to your stash from the year before and pick out your top 5 pieces to keep forever and recycle the rest.
4.Don’t buy clutter in the first place
Those pretty little trinkets and ornaments and that new pair of black pants when you already own five pairs of black pants. Don’t buy them. Oh, and donate at least three of the five pairs of black pants you already own to charidee.
5.Tuck it up at night
I can’t sit down to relax in the evening until all the stuff hanging about the place has been tucked into its real bed for the night. The hairclips, the books, the toys, the school bags, the random shoe, the jumper, the… oh, you know, the STUFF. It all gets put away at the end of every single day.** If you don’t, all that stuff breeds overnight and believe me, it likes it on top and you always, always regret it in the morning.
Are you on speaking terms with clutter?
How do you stay on, cough, top of it?
* With respect to all cold, impersonal minimalists out there, of course.
** The third drawer down is very useful here.
From Deb: I hope you can take on board some of these tactics. I love clipboards (and whiteboards – drool!) and use two for “To Pay” and “To Action” (and a 3rd for journaling). I am going to work harder at her 5th idea “tuck it up at night”. I am usually so tired by the time the kids go to bed that many days I ignore all the crafts and bits that have been left out. I used to do 15-20 minutes a night of tidying up – am definitely getting back on that horse!
Find your simple,
Deb
image credit (and project to “fancify” your clipboards)







{ 17 comments… read them below or add one }
Hi Bron,
Fab post, I loved it! Will be heading to Maxabella Loves for a nose around too!
Clutter is not my friend at all, we have a totally one-sided relationship, I hate it, although it does seem to like me a lot… Humph!
I, like Deb, need to work on point no 5, Tuck it up at night. Mmmmmm… not so good at this one, I kinda go along the lines of, ‘Pretend it’s not there and hope someone else puts it away, er, like the cat maybe…’
So I am really going to work on that one, starting tonight, I am off to bed in a mo and with me I shall be taking a few toys, a handful of hair grips, 4 pairs of shoes and a weight off my shoulder!
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September 27, 2011 at 9:21 pm
Hope you stick with it – I am really trying to get on top of this when the girls go back to school – too tired now and too much school holiday mess ; )
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An empty drawer? Really? I don’t think I could – but then I do have a fairly large problem with clutter.
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September 27, 2011 at 9:20 pm
Welcome leah!
I don’t have an empty drawer but I have found when i really declutter there are more open spaces on shelves and in drawers and like Bron it says to me there is room to breathe!
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How is it I’ve missed this blog all my blogging life? I am definitely NOT on speaking terms with any de-clutter or mess. They are The Enemy.
Love the clipboard idea, except i have mini-boxes. And do the four “F”s. But love to know how other people do it.
Oh and yes, I’m friends with Charidee. Love it!
xx
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October 10, 2011 at 10:01 am
I just found your comment in spam so sorry I did not catch it. Thank you for stopping by – What mini boxes do you use?
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Oh so like me! Great tips Bron. I especially love and believe in Number 4, oh and 5.
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October 10, 2011 at 10:02 am
Also missed your comment in an overzealous spam protector. Thanks for commenting as well!
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Thanks for having me, Deb. x
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I love reading these tips. I hold firm to the belief that the tidy, organised person I was pre-kids is still in there somewhere!
What I really need is the strength to do the full industrial sized clean out needed before I can start following these tips with some hope of succeeding.
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September 27, 2011 at 9:17 pm
you can do it – thanks for stopping by. If it helps get a declutter underway i wrote a post with the method i use to tackle decluttering. http://www.homelifesimplified.com.au/how-to-declutter-sort-and-organise-in-5-simple-steps/ If you tackle one room or space at a time you will get back on top of it (especially if you were organised before – it is like riding a bike). I find i am still organised but my lapses come more frequently due to kids and busy household stuff.
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Hi, women after my own heart, those surfaces have to be clear and crumb free, or things just dont run well. I dont have an intray or clip boards but a letter holder which I deal, clear and file on Mondays, and yes try and get most coro online cuts way down on the paper hill. Most of the kids artwork is “filed” in the recycle bin (when they are not looking) I keep the Mothers Day and Bday card though, I have a box for each of the kids that has their special things from bith in them. Decluttering is one of my fav things, I even do friends houses for them!!
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September 27, 2011 at 9:19 pm
Thanks for stopping by. I also love decluttering – wish i could prevent the clutter, but since i can’t – at least I get the pleasure of culling stuff and getting it out the door.
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Jen R,
I would like to be your friend… shall I send you my address! lol!
i hate clutter, and i use a lot of those ideas. i just make places for everything and rather than set it down on the counter i make sure it goes where it is supposed to. it’s a lot easier than having to go through at the end of the day and make sure everything is where it’s supposed to be. i just wish the rest of my family was as organized.
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I hate clutter – but you wouldn’t know it to look at my house. I get on top of it every few weeks but it creeps back in…
I do use an in-tray. I have to watch it doesn’t overflow. Though just like a work in-tray I also find if some things sit in there long enough they will eventually fix themselves… Not car rego renewals though.
Kids’ artwork: I scan the good stuff, and keep only the very best. Unfortunately one of my kids is more talented in this area than the other so my collection has to contain some, shall we say, varying quality, to be fair.
Tuck it up at night – definitely. If I don’t do this my whole mood just plummets in the morning when I get up and see it all over the floor and tables.
I may try the clipboards, if only to reduce my intray. I have a couple of clips on the fridge but they’re not labelled and get mis-used.
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October 6, 2011 at 7:07 am
I am with you – I hate it but it always creeps back in (for me it is boks and paper as I am an info /reading junkie). You are doing so much already – I wish I was on top of scanning artwork but the scanner and I do not get along (I am seriously bad with tech stuff) and we have 1 serious artist here (likely will be her profession in some way) so have a high volume of quality stuff. I don’t keep it fair in terms of how much we keep for both girls and I usually ask them what can go in recycling vs keep so that is easier for me…
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